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Five Personality Based on the contents of your wallet

Monday, October 18th, 2010

Wallet is one thing that generally must be brought people everywhere. During this time, these tiny objects has been so meritorious as a place to store money, credit and debit cards, identity cards, to the various bills. But, have you ever paused to consider its contents?

The contents of the wallet can reveal many things about your personality in managing finances. To be more clear, consider the following explanation:

Wallet contains, does not know the numbers
You have money in the wallet, but never knew how much. But who cares? If you do not find sufficient quantities, you live take one of the many credit card or debit card tucked in the wallet.

According to financial analysts Manisha Thakor, people who do not care how much money in his wallet, probably will not realize how much money in a bank savings or retirement fund. People of this type, according to him, afraid to see the reality of their financial condition. When the bill came too, they are lazy to open it.

Actually, this attitude is dangerous because you may be tempted to spend money, or apply for credit regardless of financial ability, said Patrick P. Astre, author of ‘This Is Not

Your Parents’ Retirement. ”
Change the attitude of those with the courage to face your financial reality. You may not have as much money as desired. But, it is good to know where where you stand.

Try to make note how the amount of money that are owned (or debt), and familiarize yourself feel comfortable with your financial situation.

Often empty wallet
No matter how often you withdraw money at an ATM, purses often do not contain because you tend to quickly spend it. You often wonder where the money is running. Same as the previous type, the type of person such as this also has the money but did not realize where he had gone.

The difference, as these individuals want to know Where did the money, and may feel frustrated by his inability to stop wasteful.

The key to overcome this bad habit, according to Astre, is to start giving more attention to the financial situation. Be aware of your spending patterns, and write notes in a journal expenditure. Even though your spending habits may not change overnight, take a realistic first step. For example, promise to myself that within three weeks you will know exactly where your money out.

The contents of the wallet shambles
Bills and money in the wallet. You do not really care about the arrangement. Individuals such as this, by Thakor, often do not value money or do not even care about its financial problems. The attitude shows you think money is not so important, so do not try to keep it in a safe place.

People often sabotage themselves by not consider themselves entitled to the money they get. The key to changing this behavior is to recognize the purchasing power of money that you ‘throw away. ” Try to sum up the number to the smallest bills regularly. It will award you will be able to raise money.

Full receipt and invoices
Wallet full of receipts and bills, but you never actually do something with the stack of paper. According to Thakor, this is the type of people who are trying to find out how to manage money. But, the individual is not able to increase efforts to the next level, to organize all the receipts and bills.

To change the habits of responsibility, you must learn to be more organized. Take time to organize filing system. If you never know how much money has been spent, why should save receipts and bills keep it?

Regular department
You set the contents of the wallet so neat. Bills are prepared in sequence, starting from the largest to the smallest nominal, or vice versa. You know the precise amount of money in the wallet, and how much money should be spent.

People like this know exactly how much money they spend, and how much money in savings. People with this kind of behavior is likely to have good financial habits. But, that does not mean there is no shortage. If too extreme, can-can you so economical to reluctantly spend enough money to occasionally have fun.

Shopping Mad!

Tuesday, August 3rd, 2010

Fun! Salaries have entered into an account, sign will be sushi lunch at a favorite restaurant! Hmm, I think, at the mall there’s a sale is a large scale. Can ‘peep’ moment, there are nonetheless superiors again overseas business until the end of the week. So, to the office a little late does not matter. Oh joy! Already at 12 over, time to go. Yummy, sushi is really delicious. No wonder more expensive than similar restaurants.

Okay, time for window shopping. Remember, only to see it. Since last month’s credit card bills piling up and it was difficult to be paid, do not need the extra credits that drain the pouch. And, of course, clothes will fit when fitted with this shoe. It is not being discounted, and all, but both these items can make the DIA was stunned when a date later. Oh yes, the DIA’s birthday a few weeks away. While I’m here, might as well buy a gift for her. Futsal shoes that he could desire to be a fitting gift.

Then how ‘luck’ boots and this dress? Swipe credit cards, and ready to go! While carrying groceries into his shoe store, incoming SMS. From the friend who took away this evening. Of course, not be missed! Had long been met, and today would have ended up swapping stories with the latest. Meet to eat at restaurants, some in the longue exclusive cocktail glass, and ready to go home!

Welcome to the world of compulsive shopping! Indeed most of which became ‘victims’ are women. And this is not a trivial thing to be said. According to a study done at Stanford University in 2002, 60 million Americans are compulsive shopping, and is steadily increasing. It sounds like another addiction, although this includes a serious problem.

Take for example, a woman named Betty Jean Barachie of America. During the eight years, he successfully expended as much fruit in 1500; ranging from shoes, bags, jeans, watches, and even installing a swimming pool in her backyard. Funds for 1.5 million dollars he got from ‘borrowing’ money where he worked as a manager. Found guilty, he was thrown into prison for 27 months. When checked, the house was full of groceries, with the majority of goods still have the price tag. He could not restrain myself to not spend money.

According to Dr. James Mitchell, chairman of the Department of Neuroscience University of North Dakota School of Medicine and Health Sciences, also known as compulsive shopping, compulsive buying disorder or oniomania, the level of addiction to destructs be commensurate with alcohol and drugs! Yup, that bad, darling.

According to Reid K. Hester, Ph.D., Director and Researcher of Behavior Therapy Associates in America, it is difficult to be avoided, because the culture of ‘push’ someone to do consumptive. Let’s just see banners everywhere sale. Indeed, it means you are buying cheaper goods, but still money out of your wallet, not the reverse. If you’re having trouble controlling spending, ask yourself, “what the short-term effects obtained from the shop? Will make you feel better or be a ‘nobody’ if not wearing the latest trend?” If the answer is yes, that means you’re spending to boost confidence, which is different from shopping just for the adrenaline alone.

A dangerous course to the second. Remember the old story of Winona Ryder was caught shoplifting in a store? He did so not because they want to steal, but done to get the adrenaline rush of action. Now, this is not much different with the Shopaholic. So, you belong to which?

Signs of A Shopaholic!

Tuesday, August 3rd, 2010

Impulsive shopping

This occurs if you buy any goods or services without thinking. Well, if the transmissivity over a compulsive shopping usually happens because of addiction, depression, anger, or boredom.

Purchase items not required

If you buy things just because they want to buy, not because of need. Her intentions piece, finally out of the store with more than five pieces of clothing.

Violating the agreement

Budget that you allot for shopping often violated. And do not expect to save. It difficult to pay bills!

Secretly

After buying shoes, you put it behind a cupboard. Because there are many pairs of shoes do you have, certainly if caught by the him or the mother, you will be scolded. Moreover, they already know your shopping habits are excessive and have countless number of times you fight over this issue. In addition, you secretly have a couple of credit cards. Once the reason for the ‘just in case’, but now it’s not for emergencies anymore. You like being lost without a credit card in your wallet, because you rarely buy disposable cash.

Returns

Feeling guilty, you try to return the goods. And to celebrate, you go shopping again.

Choose their own

Typically, a Shopaholic prefer to shop alone. thus, he can buy whatever he wants without any ‘other voice’ that hold them.

Black Out!

Yes, the signs of a Shopaholic is sure if he ever bought something. When unloading the closet, find some who have never seen or used, complete with price tag. Sometimes forget, “this is where you buy?”

Pursued

For severe cases can-can you change phone numbers because too often being chased by debt collectors are unable to pay credit card bills, have countless times they came to the house, even a ‘visit’ to the office.

7 Woman’s Sins When Shopping

Saturday, July 31st, 2010

Sin 1
Shopping ‘Revenge’
Lately, you work harder than ever. Overtime almost every night. Your mind works devoted to affairs in the office. A moment like this, you feel you deserve to reward yourself. According to Jean Cathzky, when buying something for myself for this reason, we tend to spend (for example, clothes shopping, shopping and accessory shopping online), slightly more than under normal circumstances.
Solution:
There are more efficient ways to reward yourself.

Sin 2
Shopping In constriction
You will attend the party tonight. You need new clothes for appearing in the party primary. You do not have much time to choose the goods are cheap and good. When the clothing store or clothing boutique and so are you interested in a good boss, you immediately buy it, regardless of price.
Solution:
If the collection of friends or relatives clothes and good enough, baseball wrong anyway, occasionally borrow their clothes. Or, Ceramic by other means. Than to store clothes / clothing boutique with new clothes, you better buy accessories women who can support your old clothes. The price of a necklace ethnic definitely cheaper than the price of spaghetti strap dress.
Sin 3
‘Hungry Eyes’
Intention was originally only wanted to wash the eyes. However, the desire was so unbearable to the boutique clothing – clothing store and saw a big discount sexy clothes. So, without thinking that you either buy it.
Solution:
It is not wise if you buy an item you do not need. Indeed, the clothes might be of interest in your eyes, but are you sure it will you wear? Not because it was the dress shop / boutique clothes directly struck. Do not just satisfy wardrobe. So, even if the goods had come down in price, if you do not need it should forget it.
Sin 4
Shopping when feeling sad
For some women, an escape when broken hearts that do not damage the shopping, including shopping at the online boutique – online clothing stores. This is true. Because in psychology and psychiatry, spending triggered torrential flow of dopamine to the brain. The flow is what is felt when you fell in love. Shopping can also activate the endorphins. In other words, act of shopping usually makes people feel better.
Solution:
Than the period of ‘mourning’ you spent at the mall, why not switch to the gym? Sports and shopping, they both activate the endorphins that make sense to be happy, right?
Sin 5
“If Friends Have, Why I’m Not?”
Your friends have something new, you do not have a cook? Well here it is.
Solution:
You may compete in terms of spending, including for example, an online boutique, but, well if you compete is a larger goal. For example, you are competing to buy apartments, cars, or vacations. Or you can just compete in terms of finding vintage items are as good as the stuff your friends, but the price is more oblique.
Sin 6
Tired of spending repellent
You feel bored and want to occasionally enjoy the fun. So you have lunch at a luxury restaurant, buy a dress with a new dress and shopping for goods that you really do not need.
Solution:
You may do it, but use cash, “said Penelope Joye, managing director of Financial Planning in www.superwoman.com. Because, when using a credit card, you will not realize how much money to spend on goods to spend it. But if you use cash, you can limit yourself. You will stop when the money in hand has been exhausted.
7 Sins
Attitude trapped Perfectionists
You are not enough to just buy a new bag or accessory other women. But, you feel the need to buy other goods to conform with the new bag. Yes, you feel the need to buy shoes, earrings, clothing, matching with the purse.
Solution:
You need to limitations in the shop. Do hungry eyes as clothes shopping, online shopping and accessory shopping. For example, you could budgeted funds each month to meet your desires. Stop when you budget a fund has been exhausted. You can shop again in the next month with a new budget. In addition, cut the posts that you deem less important.